Thanks largely to TV and the internet, we are constantly exposed to models and supermodels, flashing their flat tummies and perfect thighs.
Consequently, we are also surrounded by women continually striving to achieve similar figures and body shapes, often by indulging in unhealthy practices such as excessive dieting or overexerting workout regimes.
Married women, particularly those with children, are more vulnerable to such insecurities. As a husband, then, it is your responsibility to make your wife understand that she is and will always be the prettiest woman you will ever see.
In this article, we will discuss a few ways to make your wife feel beautiful and relieve her anxiety and uncertainty.
Ways to Make Your Wife Feel Beautiful
- Tell Her That She Is Beautiful
- Do Not Stop Chasing Her
- Initiate Physical Connections
- Carry Her Pictures with You
- Respect Your Own Physique
- Do Not Compare
- Compliment Your Wife in Front of Your Kids
- Embellish Her
- Admire Her Inner Beauty
- Let Your Notice Your Love and Desire for Her
- Acknowledge Even the Smallest Physical Changes
- Allow Others to Compliment Her Too
- Fall in Love with Her Imperfections
1. Tell Her That She Is Beautiful
Be it through movies, magazines, or advertisements, your wife is continuously bombarded with messages that might cause her to hate how she looks.
To counter this effect, she requires daily reassurances to help her improve her self-image; as her husband, you are the one person who can make your wife feel good about herself.
Appreciate her and pay her compliments at every chance you get – ranging from her physique to her cooking abilities
When out in public, make her feel valued and show her that you are proud to have her by your side.
2. Do Not Stop Chasing Her
Just because she is now married to you does not mean that you take her for granted – quite the opposite, since now she is an even more critical part of your life.
Keep flirting with her, keep taking her out on dates, bring her gifts, kiss her when she least expects it. When the man of her life makes her feel precious and loved, it is bound to change her brain chemistry – and her perception of herself – for the better.
Making her feel loved will involve understanding her love needs. So, please make time to learn what your wife wants, and then make those things happen for her.
3. Initiate Physical Connections
Even if your wife’s love language does not involve physical intimacy, it does not mean that she does not appreciate it from time to time.
Non-sexual touches are associated with the release of oxytocin, a brain chemical associated with intimacy and feelings of trust.
Hold her hand when you are out on a date. Hug and put your arms around her. You can even give her foot or back massages.
4. Carry Her Pictures with You
You could always put her picture on your home or office desk or carry her photograph in your wallet.
Let your wife know that you never want to take your eyes off her and that you want to feel her close to you even when you two are not physically together.
By placing her picture on your desk, you also make your colleagues realize that your wife is a prominent part of your life, and you are not afraid to show her off to the world.
5. Respect Your Own Physique
Your wife is continually striving to give you her best, and she should not expect anything less in return.
Show your wife that you are putting in the effort to take care of and become the best version of yourself.
Also, if the head of the house indulges in self-care, the value will quickly rub off on the rest of the household.
However, do not explicitly speak about improving your physical appearance, as it might make her feel like a failure and not good enough for you, and your efforts might end up backfiring.
6. Do Not Compare
Your wife is probably already comparing herself to other women. The last thing you can do for your wife is to add to her worst fears – even if your intentions are just to make your wife take better care of herself.
Keep letting her know that she is beautiful, and she will remain motivated towards working to improve herself in every way.
Her self-improvement efforts should come from a place of self-love and enthusiasm rather than from a place of doubt and insecurities.
7. Compliment Your Wife in Front of Your Kids
One of the best things a father can do for his children is to love their mother.
Let your kids know how pretty their mom is and that you, just like them, are blessed to have her in your life.
These sentiments of love and respect will replicate inside your children and make them more appreciative of their mother and what she does for them.
8. Embellish Her
It would help if you encouraged your wife to invest time and money for herself, and you can do this by taking an interest in her adornments.
Maybe get her a new outfit like this as a surprise or get that piece of jewelry you noticed at the mall. You can even encourage her to buy those extravagant designer clothes every now and then.
Become a student of your wife’s likes and dislikes in apparel and accessories and help her decide what works best for her.
9. Admire Her Inner Beauty
While it is true that this article is supposed to make your wife feel beautiful from the outside, but she is more than her looks, and you need to remember this.
Appreciate her for who she is – be it her generosity, intelligence, maturity, or even spiritual insight.
Compliment her on how beautifully she fulfills all the roles in her life and that she is an amazing wife, mother, daughter, and friend.
10. Let Your Notice Your Love and Desire for Her
This could involve giving her that appreciative smile at random times of the day. It could mean keeping your eyes fixed on her while making love. Or remind her of your special bond by giving her a quick wink when you are sitting across from her in a room full of people.
Take charge, let your wife know that you love her and want all of her. Remember that perception is contingent on details such as a smile, a glance, a raised eyebrow, or a quick word.
11. Acknowledge Even the Smallest Physical Changes
Did she color her nails a different shade of red? Did she get a new haircut? Is she wearing that serene blue dress you gifted her on her birthday?
She made a real attempt at looking beautiful for you; the least you can do is pay attention to the details.
12. Allow Others to Compliment Her Too
If you know that your wife is deserving of every compliment that she gets, you should not be surprised, paranoid, or jealous when that happens.
Also, you should not make your wife feel tied up and bounded in your presence; let her be free and let the world see and appreciate all the reasons you fell in love with her.
Understand that she chose you just as much as you chose her, and that is never going to change.
13. Fall in Love with Her Imperfections
Although your wife tries her best to be, she cannot be perfect at all times. At the end of the day, she has her own flaws, just like you do.
It is your job as a husband to love all those flaws and imperfections and make her feel loved on the days she finds it hard to fall in love with herself.
And, after all, her imperfections are what make her unique, and that uniqueness is what made you fall for her in the first place. Celebrate the unique. Celebrate the love.
Things to Say to Your Wife to Make Her Feel Beautiful:
We have already emphasized the importance of speaking up about your wife’s beauty and importance, and the good news is that there are numerous ways to make that sentiment heard.
What are some of those ways? Let us check out:
- “You bring meaning to my life and paint my world with bright colors.”
- “Whenever I look into your eyes, I feel the same way as I felt the first time we met, and I looked into your eyes.”
- “As long as I have your support, I can face any challenge without difficulty.”
- “I feel lucky to have been taken by the most beautiful woman on this planet. I love you!”
- “You are my Goddess, my hope, my joy, and my life. Please never leave me, my love.”
- “You are a special gift from the heavens. Your smile warms my heart and your presence makes me whole. I love you, today, tomorrow, and forever.”
- “If the only right thing I did in my life was to love you, it would be absolutely worth it.”
- “Every love story is beautiful, but ours is my favorite.”
- “In case you foolishly forget, I am never not thinking of you.”
- “I married you not because I wanted to live with you, but because I could not live without you.”
- “I feel short of words to tell you how important you are to me. All I can say is that my entire life revolves around you and nothing else really matters.”