109 Flirty Truth Or Dare Questions Over Text (For Him/Her)

Did you know that the flirty text version of truth and dare can be more exciting than playing it face to face? It may also get you more juice out of your crush or partner.

Ask questions that you may not have had the guts to ask otherwise and get them to do things just so you can have a good laugh. It will be a great way for you to subtly flirt with someone you like, or if you’re dating them, you can get to know them better while having a blast.

So, get your texting game on and ask them these top flirty truth or dare questions.

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Flirty Truth Questions Over Text

One of the best ways to get to know someone while flirting with them is through playing ‘truth’. This way, the questions won’t seem too intrusive because the other person knows that it’s all just a part of a game.

An advantage of playing it over text is that a person may feel more comfortable answering them rather than face to face, which could make them feel awkward. Use this as an opportunity to get to know their deepest secrets and everything you want to know about them.

Make it fun but not too intense. If you find yourself asking too many heavy questions and sense the mood becoming dark, throw in the lighter ones. It should be a good balance of funny/sexy/romantic questions that will make the game so much more fun and interesting.

  1. Have you ever flashed someone?
  2. Have you ever kissed someone of the same gender?
  3. How many women have you slept with?
  4. Who was your last kiss?
  5. Who was your best kiss and who was the worst?
  6. Who was your last crush?
  7. What is the most embarrassing thing you’ve done when you were drunk?
  8. When was the first time you ever watched porn?
  9. When was the last time you watched porn?
  10. Do you have any fetishes?
  11. Where do you fantasize about having sex the most?
  12. What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve imagined doing to someone?
  13. What is the most attractive feature you consider in the opposite sex?
  14. Have you ever sent nudes?
  15. What turns you on the most?
  16. What was your first impression of me?
  17. Have you ever stalked my Instagram? When was the last time you did?
  18. Who are you crushing on at the moment?
  19. What makes you feel jealous?
  20. What’s the one thing you wouldn’t want your crush to find out about you?
  21. Are you into role-playing? Have you done it before?
  22. Have you ever had a threesome?
  23. How old were you when you had your first kiss?
  24. When was the last time you cried and why?
  25. When was the last time you took a shower?
  26. Tell me something nobody knows about you
  27. Have you ever been in love?
  28. If you could make out with three people right now, who would they be? Name them in order.
  29. What’s your guilty pleasure?
  30. Have you ever cheated on someone?
  31. Have you ever hit on someone much older than you?
  32. Have you ever been rejected? By who?
  33. What’s your biggest fear?
  34. What’s the most embarrassing pickup line you’ve ever used?
  35. Has your mom ever walked in on you doing it?
  36. What is one thing you look for in a partner?
  37. Who’s the last person you stalked on social media?
  38. What’s the most romantic thing you ever did for someone?
  39. How would you ask someone out?
  40. If you were a stripper, what would be your stripper name?
  41. Name three things on your bedside table right now.
  42. What’s the biggest lie you’ve ever told your significant other without getting caught?
  43. What’s your biggest sexual fear?
  44. What’s the strangest thing you’ve done when you were alone?
  45. What’s the dirtiest thought you’ve ever had?
  46. What’s your go-to move for getting attention from the opposite sex?
  47. What’s the flirtiest thing you’ve ever done?
  48. What’s the one thing you would want to change about your love life if you could?
  49. What’s your favorite sex toy?
  50. What color underwear are you wearing right now?
  51. What is the worst rumor or gossip that was spread about you?
  52. Have you ever gone out without wearing underwear?
  53. Who would be the most fun person that you would want to be stuck in an elevator with?
  54. Has anyone ever accidentally seen you naked and if so, who?
  55. Who are you secretly attracted to at the moment?
  56. Have you ever performed a striptease for anyone before?
  57. What was your childhood nickname?
  58. What would you rate yourself out of 10 on your looks?
  59. Who was the most inappropriate person you were caught checking out?
  60. What’s one thing you would never do in front of someone you had a crush on?

Flirty Dare Questions Over Text

Spice it up by moving on to the dares; it will make the game much more interesting! Get your crush to do the silliest dares, which you can laugh about.

Balance it out with the flirty ones so you’re not too obvious. Since you’re playing it over text, you will need proof that the other person has done the things you’ve told them to.

You can do this by asking them to send you pictures and videos and even better, getting them to do it on FaceTime with you so you can see it live.

  1. Tag one of your crushes in a post on Facebook.
  2. Call the 25th person in your contacts list.
  3. Go live on Instagram/Facebook and do a striptease.
  4. Call a pizza place and order Indian food.
  5. Tell your current crush that you have a crush on them.
  6. Close your eyes and scroll through your contacts and pick one. Now text them and tell them to come outside.
  7. Take an ugly selfie and upload it on Instagram.
  8. Call a random person in your contacts and sing to them.
  9. Send an embarrassing video of yourself to your top 30 contacts.
  10.  Send me a video of you caressing yourself all over.
  11. You have one minute to change into your sexiest outfit and FaceTime me.
  12. Send a screenshot of your search history on Instagram/Facebook.
  13. Take off your shirt using one hand on FaceTime.
  14. Make out with a stuffed toy and send the video to five people.
  15. Text your best friend of the same gender something dirty.
  16. Fake an orgasm on FaceTime.
  17. Hit on me like we’re in a bar.
  18. Update your Facebook status to looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend.
  19. Send me a screenshot of the latest conversation you had with your mother.
  20. Remove one piece of clothing that you’re wearing right now on FaceTime.
  21. Call a random number and try and get them to have phonesex with you.
  22. Eat a piece of fruit in the most sexual way possible on FaceTime.
  23. Put whipped cream all over your naked body on FaceTime.
  24. Send me the last picture that you took of yourself.
  25. Go outside on your street, blast a sexy song, and start dancing in front of everyone.
  26. Make a seductive face and send it to your first 20 contacts.
  27. Text ‘Voulez-vous coucher avec moi (ce soir)?” to your last three exes.
  28. Demonstrate your favorite sex position on FaceTime.
  29. Draw me naked and send me a picture.
  30. Send a dirty meme to your colleagues.
  31. Wear your underwear and send me a picture.
  32. Act like the opposite gender and prank call someone.
  33. Do 30 pushups and shout my name after each one.
  34. You have one minute to write a long song/poem for your crush.
  35. Curse in another language and upload it as your Instagram/Facebook story.
  36. Do a belly dance on FaceTime.
  37. Prank call your best friend’s boyfriend/girlfriend.
  38. Send a video of yourself pole dancing an imaginary pole to your top five contacts.
  39. Cover one of your bare body parts in food.
  40. Call your mom and start singing a song to her.
  41. Stalk a random person on Instagram/Facebook and like 20 of their recent photos.
  42. Comment ‘Wish I was with you’ on the first post that comes up on your Instagram/Facebook.
  43. Prank call your crush.
  44. Sing a love song to your crush and use their name in it.
  45. Make up an identity and text someone random, telling them your fake identity.
  46. Put ice down your shirt on FaceTime.
  47. Fake drunk call someone at your work.
  48. Make out with your hand and send a video to your mom.
  49. If you’re a girl, text your mom telling her that you’re pregnant, and if you’re a boy say that you’re going to be a father.

Some of them may be a bit bold, but what’s the harm if you two are having fun? It will increase the bond between the two of you and get you closer!